Love Failures, why?

Bakit kaya dumadating sa point ng isang tao yung nag-dadalawang isip ka? afraid that you might pick the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of your life!? have you ever felt that you’ve been so gaga over someone and yet call it CRAZY…but we have never thought how stupid we become until we felt that we’ve been hurt?? and how come after all this shits you’ve been through to someone, hurt you like no one else did, still you say… “MAHAL KO PA RIN SYA…”. Sometimes were confused kung makkinig tayo sa takbo ng utak natin or from the feelings we have in our heart they say that LOVE CONQUERS ALL… yeah right!!! minsan, nafefeel nyo pa yung tipong maymahal ka, pero meron naman sya iba, or you feel for your friend but your too afraid to let it show coz ur fearing of rejection? dialogue at the movie My Best Friend’s Wedding which Rupert Everett said…”if you love someone, say it…you say it right then…out LOUD or the moment just…passes you by…” meron naman yung situation na, tipong there’s someone in your life and you could say he’s she’s the one at masasabi mo din na mahal na mahal mo sya… but then, you’ve lost your trust on him/her… yung tipong binigay mo na lahat ng trust mo nung una, tapos nawala lahat kasi nalaman mong he’s she’s cheating on you. diba masakit??! SOBRA!!! syempre ypu can’t help to think that he/she might do this to you again, after you’ve given him/her a chance? and now, telling you this promises that youve heard a million times before… but then… what if he/she broke this promises in this second time around? ewan ko na lang… i just have to say we can do CRAZY shits for the one we love, “except” to give all of our TRUST again… for short… its really hard to trust someone again once you’ve lost it…i gez it takes time…eh pano naman yung situation na gusto makipagbreak? but theres something keeps you holding back, yung tipong natatakot kang masaktan sya o masaktan mo sarili mo regret it later that you did it?. Sometimes we cant blame ourselves for ending a relationship, maybe sa side ng nsaktan MASAMA KA at MADALI para sayo yun at nagpapakasaya ka pa… i don’t think so… its also really hard to break someone’s heart w/o wanting to… minsan di mo naman sya intend na saktan eh… but you have to do it try then coz its much more painful if you didn’t do it right away… tapos sa huli… ikaw pa yung masisisi at pustahan… sasabihin pa nila sayo… BAKIT NGAYON MO LANG SINABI? partings never easy… and sometimes naman you felt that you’ve given all you’ve got to give and still it isn’t enough? still it doesn’t work right? or doesn’t receive anything in return? its the matter of giving, don’t assume that you’ll receive much more of what you expect, minsan naman tipong TWO TIMER KA, di mo ma-choose one over the other…mahal mo nga sya pero may qualities naman yung isa na ok at masasabi mong ngkakasundo kayo in anyway…its very hard to choose dba? well, GROW UP!!! sh*t… now ur being SELFISH!!! oh well, you’ve gotta choose just one person and learn to accept the fact that THREE IS ALWAYS A CROWD and tapos meron naman yung situation na, minsan bigla mo sya maalala, yeah know…your ex…reminiscn d all good time you’ve shared together…somehow you miss him/her right? but then… somehow theres emptiness inside of you na di mo mapipigilan, and your thinking whether your gonna do something bout it or not, kasi you might be wondering maybe he’s/she’s happy with someone else’s arms na… or scared to lose their pride chicken shits for both parties… how about naman sa mga taong HURT or BIGO? w/o absolutely no idea why they’ve been hurt … and maybe still figuring out what’s the reason of their break up… we usually tend to smile but behind d curtains…were DYING… minsan dinadaan nalang natin sa paglalasing toh with our fellow barkadas or get out of town and do something as a relief 4 a while… i believe thats how it goes….. dont worry there someone out there who will be the one 2 ease ur pain away… just widden up ur eyes…or u could use ur high resolution reading glasses…coz u might help perhaps…lols..ull never know..d person beside u in a bus might be one who can spend the rest of ur life wid…hhmmm… maybe sooner or later…(betcha, im sure they will) they’ll probably soon realized what they’ve LOST AND FOUND oh wel (2 bad!).. palaging nsa huli ang pagsisisi… its not ur lost … ITS THEIRS!! madami pa jan noh… we truly never know what we’ve GOT until its GONE… and we also never thought the person we loved d most could be the one who will hurts us d most… ok lets put it this way… di ka naman kasi masasaktan kung hindi ka nagmamahal eh…nsasaktan ka ksi ngmamahal ka… minsan we’d prefer 2 b hurt pa nga dba?!? in our point of our lives we should be so LUCKY 2 have some one who’ll never lets us go… someone who’ll luvs us even more… and someone who’ll cherish us for the rest of our lives… lesson of love could bring us so much pain… i gez GOD just lets us meet few people that goes IN and OUT in our lives… and those times might be the unforgettable ones… taught us lessons in this insane world of LOVE..the more we’ve been hurt , the more we gain lessons… but one thing is for sure… we’ll know how to get up again wen we fall… dont be afraid give urself a chance to love again…don’t look back and look for the qualities from the past love to someone new… were different kinds of people and has different personalities but who knows.. theres much more u can see in diz new person, that u can never think of…ending relationship doesnt mean its the end of s story but its just the beginning of a new chapter in life… LOVE never kepts as promise with a word such as “FOREVER”… its not just a word that is easy to say…its also a place for us to get there… actions speaks louder than words…now, as i sat down in the front of my computer, mind spinning, bored, lack of sleep, listening to the radio… playing an old school which is for sure one of ur fave love songs of all the time… “…and its telling me IT MIGHT BE YOU, all of my life….” this lines keep circlin’ like butterflies on my head, wondering who might be the love of our lives… n o one could tell… no one knows.. God only knows… these are just some of the situations in LOVE. i can’t say that im the one of those people who knows all sh*ts about love… im just saying this coz ive learned from them a LOT…and somehow ill cherish the lessons that left these scars from my past… lessons that will teach me over and over again gez its truly in he matter of our choice in life, ganyan tlga ang buhay… LOVE is feeling like ur in heaven, but it can also HURT like hell, but one thing is for sure, u’ll learn to let go and love someone else that ever u did before, this time it might be extra special, do something wonderful this day for it will never come again. dont live a life with a regret, take chance, make mistakes… HAPPINESS - and that the only thing you can give urself anyway..

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